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Temporary Motivations



There is this old saying, “Nothing is permanent, except for change”. It almost feels true. But we do not want to accept this fact! At least with respect to things, persons, we value most. we wish, they cling on to us. Love is definitely in the list. Another “Precious” that everyone aspires for is - success, if not success, we try to compromise with motivation, fuel to achieve the success.Even after the compromise, motivation doesn't seem to be just a word as it appears but one with a pre- ‘Short-lived’ attached to it.

We derive motivation from many a sources, Books, Inspirational quotes, Speeches, Stories and last but not the least Visual means. Even with these many sources, bombarding Motivation on to us doesn't it feel, it is just Temporary?!

For some, it may last for days, but for most of us, It lasts for at the maximum for a day. In, not so usual circumstances, it may prolong to next day’s dawn. There are many of us, who tend to postpone ‘the motivation’ itself. Let me explain. Most of us, see a movie, something related to the life story of a sports person or of a freedom fighter or something related to patriotism. We feel inspired - Motivated. A wave originates in us, to do something great!! To work hard!!!

Then, in a momentary time, we tend to postpone the plan to work hard to the next day’s morning. Thus, in a way, postponing motivation itself.

But why does this happen?! Why is this motivation, only a short-lived, if not momentary effect?!
The question is a tough one, for it doesn't have any particular answer - varies from person to person. So let me present the one, that fits many. Let’s say, we saw a patriotic movie. We are moved by the lead characters patriotism, sacrifice and love for his country; We derive motivation from his role. Or, let’s suppose, we read a story of a sports person; true to it, we try to derive inspiration from his will to overcome those hurdles. But, where is the problem?!

The problem lies in the point that, along with the Motivation, we also try to get into our mind the situations he or she faced and try to co-relate with that of ours. We are not even closely related to them, in any way. There everything flatters and falls flat on the face. If I have to put in another way - Motivation doesn't mean a solution to overcome our problems or a road map to success; It is just a catalyst, which drives us towards working out the solution or a road map.

So, when we try to derive a solution out of a catalyst, the action yields no results!!
There are obviously some other reasons on to why we can’t cling on to the motivations we derived. Distractions, Having no specific goal can be a few of them. Then how can we make the catalyst keep pouring on, continuously? There is surely no, hard hit answer for everyone in common. The answer for sure lies in our own interests, the way we try to derive motivations, the frequency by which we require them or how long they cling on to us. The question is not a hard one not just because it is difficult to find a generic answer to everyone’s problem, but it also lies in the fact that, there are many solutions and we may find it difficult to identify the one for us.

Let me propose a solution, motivated by the works of Dr. A P J Abdul Kalam, former President of the Republic of India. By his writings and lectures, working towards his mission, Vision 2020, to see a developed India, Dr. Kalam, propagated a very important message to the youth of the country. He asks the youth to take an oath, To think small is a crime. This principle if understood properly can serve as “The Motivation”. Dr Kalam envisages that Individual development ensures that of society and thereby Nations. His guiding principle, do not think small is crucial in here. As is the larger vision for the country, you need to have a larger vision for yourself. That can keep you pushing. The moment you feel low or lack of motivation, wait, isn't it thinking, and isn't thinking small a crime?!
The principle again, may not occur to you, when you are low. So we need a workaround. Get a poster. Make it your wallpaper.For a moment take time, take time and preserve the very thought.

It’s just a simple idea. I would better say, it’s a hint. A catalyst. It is again, up to you, how will you manage to keep your motivation permanent. Remember, the earlier you get yourself freed from the vicious circle of Temporary motivation, the better it is.


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